Do you know what kind of funeral your parents want? How about their wishes for end-of-life care?
We put off discussing estate planning with our parents because we worry about how they might perceive the conversation. Still, to ensure you comply with their wishes, you need to know what they are.
Setting the stage
Many people believe that estate planning is only done by the wealthy. Furthermore, your parents may assume that the surviving spouse will take care of everything if anything happens to one of them. Or, their children will step in to make decisions for them. However, that is not how Georgia’s laws work. The courts need signed legal documentation regarding asset distribution, power of attorney and healthcare directives.
Talking about estate planning can feel awkward. Approaching the conversation with care and thoughtfulness can make all the difference when tackling sensitive subjects. Here are some tips to keep in mind:
- Educate yourself beforehand regarding the basics of estate planning to help you guide the conversation.
- Choose the right time and place, such as a private setting where everyone feels comfortable and calm.
- Assure your parents that you are coming from a place of love and care. Your primary focus is honoring their wishes when the time comes.
- Involve your siblings so no one feels left out, which may lead to conflict down the road.
Some parents may feel uncomfortable talking about their mortality. If they are resistant to the topic, don’t push it and upset them. Just reassure them that it’s about clarifying their decisions to prevent confusion and disagreements. Give them time to think about what you’ve discussed and re-approach at a later time.
Consider Involving someone who understands estate planning and can provide your parents with unbiased information. They can assure your parents that by taking action, they can reduce uncertainty and enjoy peace of mind, knowing that their wishes will be honored.