An executor’s job is no easy feat. In Georgia, anyone at least 18 and of sound mind can assume the role. However, these qualifications do not entirely capture what it takes to fulfill expected duties.
If someone chooses you to be their executor, it can weigh a great deal as you must carry out their dying wishes as laid out in their will. Understandably, the appointment may shock you, and you may feel like you have no choice but to proceed hesitantly.
On the contrary, you can actually refuse to take it on if you can justify your decision.
Why you might choose not to be an executor
You may be the deceased’s spouse, close friend or relative. Depending on the depth of your relationship, you may feel obligated to keep their affairs in order after their death.
However, before agreeing to be the executor, consider the following:
- Are you in stable physical and mental condition after a loved one’s death?
- Do you have enough time to handle extensive paperwork?
- Do you live nearby without thinking of inconvenient or impractical travel expenses?
- How likely are you to disagree with the living heirs or beneficiaries?
- How likely are you not to get along with the designated co-executor?
- Do you have the required soft skills to manage multiple tasks promptly and coordinate with creditors, successors and other interested parties?
These considerations may still expand due to the complexity of the estate and the family’s circumstances. Thus, it is critical to be completely honest with yourself. If you believe the job is not for you, express your sentiments as soon as possible. Doing so can avoid future disputes, such as family members challenging your appointment or raising conflicts of interest.
Further, if the will designates another person as an alternate, they may take over. If none, the court may intervene to assign another qualified individual to perform the executor’s responsibilities.
Why declining is not necessarily a bad thing
Declining the role means you care enough for the deceased to acknowledge your limits. But it does not automatically mean you are helpless. You can still help honor their legacy in unique ways you know how. If you are still undecided on how to move forward, your legal representative can reassure you with options and guide you in protecting your rights.